Spirit-in-Nature Flower Essences Index

“The ox is slow, but the earth is patient.”
-Source unknown

This index affords quick and easy reference for the practitioner and the layperson alike. Here, you will find both positive and negative qualities and conditions listed-in other words, both sides of the essence coin. Coconut, as an example, is listed under willingness and unwillingness. The indexed negative qualities are our shortcomings or imperfect attempts at their positive opposite expressions. The positive qualities represent the vibrational message of the essences and we ourselves expressing those qualities, much like the before and after photos that are sometimes used in advertising.

Thus, the index may be used in two ways. You might say, “I’d really like to have more hope,” in which case you would refer to that category, or “I’m really in a mood today,” and check under “Moodiness” and related sections such as “Temperamentalism” and “Unhappiness.” After finding the desired subject, you may want to refer to the corresponding essence chapter for complete information on that particular essence.

If you are searching for a quality or condition that is not listed, check under a comparable topic. There are several reasons why a quality may be unlisted in this index: (1) it may be a state such as childhood, for which all the essences apply; (2) as a rule, physical conditions are not listed because, as mentioned earlier, flower essences address psycho-emotional issues and not the physical level directly; or (3) I am still collecting data on those topics.

Abandonment	Grape	Strawberry
Absent-mindedness	Avocado
Abundance	Date	Pineapple
Abuse	Orange	Strawberry
Acceptance	Apple	Date
Accident-proneness	Pear
Accuracy	Avocado
Achievement	Corn
Acuity	Avocado
Adaptability	Fig
Addiction	Almond	Tomato
Adjustability	Fig
Adventure	Spinach
Advice-seeking	Lettuce
Advice-giving	Peach
Affirmation of life	Corn
Agelessness	Strawberry
Agitation	Lettuce
Alertness	Avocado
Alienation	Grape
Aloofness	Grape
Altruism	Peach
Ambivalence	Strawberry
Analytical	Spinach
Anger	Almond	Apple	Lettuce
Anguish	Orange
Animals, love of	Peach	Spinach
Annoyance	Date
Anxiety	Banana	Tomato
Apathy	Orange
Apologetic, overly	Strawberry
Appreciation	Peach	Spinach
Apprehension	Tomato
Arrogance	Banana
Articulateness	Blackberry	Fig
Attachment, negative	Banana
Attention	Avocado
Attitudes, unhealthy	Apple
Attunement, to others	Date
Auric disturbances	Pear
"Autopilot"state	Corn
Avoidance	Coconut
Awareness	Avocado	Coconut
Awareness, environmental	Blackberry
Awe	Spinach
Balance	Almond	Apple	Pear
Beauty, love of	Strawberry
Belief, in self	Tomato
Benevolence	Raspberry
Bliss	Orange
Bitterness	Raspberry
Blame, of others	Grape	Raspberry
Blocked energy	Corn
Bluntness	Blackberry
Body image	Strawberry
Boredom	Corn
Boundaries	Fig
Brashness	Pear
Break-ups	Strawberry
Bubbliness	Cherry
Buoyancy	Spinach
Burdened	Orange	Spinach
Calm	Almond	Banana	Lettuce
Care	Peach
Career problems	Pineapple
Carefree	Spinach
Caution	Pear
Celebration	Tomato
Centeredness	Pear	Tomato
Certainty	Lettuce
Challenges	Avocado	Coconut
Change	Corn	Tomato
Character strength	Pineapple
Cheerfulness	Cherry
Childbirth	Pear
Child-likeness	Cherry	Spinach
Clarity	Avocado	Banana	Blackberry
	Lettuce	Pineapple
Cleansing	Apple	Blackberry
Clinginess	Grape
Closed-minded	Blackberry
Clouded thinking	Blackberry
Clumsiness	Strawberry
Codependence	See Chapter Thirty-two
Commitment	Coconut	Grape	Strawberry
Common sense	Blackberry
Communication	Lettuce
Companionship, unpleasant	Date
Comparison, self to others	Pineapple	Strawberry
Compassion	Date	Peach	Raspberry
Competency	Peach
Complaining nature	Blackberry	Date
Completion	Coconut
Composure	Pear
Compromise, inability to	Fig	Pear
Compulsion	Fig
Concentration	Avocado	Lettuce
Concern	Peach
Condemnation	Fig
Confidence	Pineapple
Conflict	Banana	Orange	Pear
Confrontation	Blackberry
Confusion	Avocado
Consideration	Grape	Peach
Constriction	Peach
Contentment	Cherry	Date	Pineapple
Contractiveness	Coconut
Contrariness	Cherry
Control, lack of	Almond	Cherry
Courage	Tomato
Courteousness	Grape	Strawberry
Conviction, lack of	Tomato
Cowardice	Tomato
Creativity	Corn	Lettuce
Crisis	Pear
Criticism	Date	Fig	Grape
Crowds	Tomato
Cruelty	Blackberry	Grape	Raspberry
Curiosity	Spinach
Cynicism	Blackberry
Dark thoughts	Blackberry
Dauntlessness	Tomato
Daydreaming	Avocado
Death, grieving	Grape
Deception	Blackberry
Decisiveness	Lettuce	Strawberry
Defeatism	Coconut	Tomato
Defensiveness	Banana	Tomato
Demand	Grape
Denial	Blackberry
Dependability	Strawberry
Depression	Orange	Peach
Despair	Orange
Detachment	Banana
Details	Avocado
Determination	Coconut
Devotion	Grape
Difficulties	Coconut
Dignity	Banana	Strawberry
Direction	Avocado
Directness	Blackberry
Discernment	Date
Discipline	Almond	Fig
Disciplinarian	Fig
Disconnectedness	Grape
Discontentment	Almond	Date	Spinach
Discrimination	Blackberry	Date
Dishonesty	Blackberry
Disinterest	Orange	Peach
Disorganized	Avocado
Dissatisfaction	Pineapple
Distrust	Spinach
Divorce	Grape
Dogmatism	Fig
Domineering	Peach
Doubt	Apple
Dreams	Avocado
Dullness	Avocado
Dysfunction	Spinach	Strawberry
Earthiness	Pear
Ease, at	Fig
Efficiency	Almond
Egocentricity	Date	Peach
Egoism	Grape
Elegance	Strawberry
Emergency	Pear
Emotions	Apple	Grape	Lettuce
	Orange	Raspberry
Empathy	Raspberry
Empowerment	Tomato
Emptiness	Grape
Endurance	Coconut	Corn	Orange
Energy	Corn
Enjoyment	Spinach
Enthusiasm	Corn	Orange	Spinach
Environmental awareness	Blackberry
Envy	Grape
Escapism	Coconut
Evasiveness	Blackberry
Even-mindedness	Cherry
Excess	Almond
Excuses, making	Coconut
Exhaustion	Corn
Expansion	Coconut	Grape
Expectations, unrealistic	Grape	Fig
Exploitation	Peach
Exploration	Spinach
Exuberance	Spinach
Failure	Lettuce	Tomato
Fanaticism	Fig
Fault-finding	Blackberry	Cherry
Fear	Apple	Spinach	Tomato
Fearlessness	Apple	Tomato
Fear of aging	Strawberry
Flexibility	Fig
Fluidity	Fig	Pear
Focus	Avocado	Blackberry
Forgetfulness	Avocado
Forgiveness	Raspberry
Frailty	Tomato
Freedom	Spinach
Friction	Pear
Friendliness	Spinach
Friendship	Grape
Frigidity	Grape
Frugality	Blackberry
Frustration	Almond	Blackberry
Garrulousness	Peach
Generosity	Peach	Raspberry
Gentleness	Banana	Blackberry	Peach
Gloom	Cherry
Goodness	Blackberry
Gossip	Blackberry
Gracefulness	Strawberry
Greatness	Banana
Greed	Grape	Peach
Grief	Grape	Orange	Pear
Groundedness	Strawberry
Grudges	Raspberry
Grumpiness	Cherry
Guidance	Fig
Guilt	Peach	Strawberry
Guilelessness	Spinach
Habit-bound	Almond
Happiness	Apple	Cherry
Harmony	Pear
Hastiness	Pear
Healthfulness	Apple
Heart	Cherry	Grape	Raspberry
Heaviness	Cherry	Orange
Helpfulness	Peach	Raspberry
Hesitation	Tomato
Homesickness	Avocado
Honesty	Pineapple	Spinach
Honor	Blackberry	Coconut
Hope	Apple	Tomato	Cherry	Orange
Hopelessness	Orange
Humanitarianism	Pear
Humility	Banana
Humor	Blackberry	Fig	Spinach
Hurt feelings	Raspberry
Hypochondria	Apple	Fig
Identity, sense of	Pineapple
Illness, fear of	Apple	Tomato
Immoderation	Almond
Imposition	Pineapple
Impotence	Grape
Impurity	Apple	Blackberry
Inadaptability	Fig
Inadequacy	Peach	Strawberry
Inattention	Avocado
Incisiveness	Blackberry
Inconsideration	Grape	Peach
Indecisiveness	Apple	Lettuce	Strawberry
Inferiority complex	Pineapple
Inhibitions	Fig	Tomato
Inhospitable	Date
Initiative	Corn
Innocence	Blackberry	Spinach
Innovation	Corn
Insecurity	Strawberry
Insensitivity	Peach	Raspberry
Insight	Blackberry
Inspiration	Blackberry	Cherry	Grape
Instability	Tomato
Insults	Blackberry
Integration	Apple	Orange
Integrity	Strawberry
Intellectual	Spinach
Interest	Peach	Spinach
Interest in life	Orange
Interiorization	Almond
Intimacy	Grape
Intolerance	Date
Introspection	Blackberry
Intuition	Fig
Invincibility	Tomato
Inwardness	Almond
Irascibility	Date
Irresolution	Orange
Irresponsibility	Strawberry
Irritability	Date
Jealousy	Apple	Grape
Joy	Corn	Orange	Peach	Spinach
Judged, feeling	Fig	Pineapple
Judgment	Banana	Fig	Blackberry	Date
Kindheartedness	Raspberry
Kindness	Blackberry	Peach	Raspberry
Lackluster attitude	Corn
Lashing out	Raspberry
Laughter	Cherry
Laziness	Corn
Lessons	Avocado
Lethargy	Corn
Letting go	Raspberry
Lightheartedness	Cherry
Lightness	Cherry	Orange
Limitations	Fig	Pineapple
Listening	Banana	Raspberry	Date	Peach
Loneliness	Date	Grape	Peach
Lost, feeling	Strawberry
Loudness	Pineapple
Love	Grape	Peach	Pear	Raspberry
Love of beauty	Strawberry
Lust	Grape
Magnetism	Apple	Date	Grape
Manipulation	Peach
Martyrdom	Fig	Peach
Maturity	Blackberry	Peach	Strawberry
Meanness	Blackberry	Raspberry
Meddlesome	Peach
Melancholia	Orange
Memory	Avocado
Menopause	See Chapter Thirty-two
Mindfulness	Avocado
Mischievousness	Spinach
Mistakes	Avocado
Moderation	Almond
Modesty	Banana
Money issues	Pineapple
Moodiness	Cherry
Morality	Blackberry
Narrowness	Date	Peach
Nastiness	Raspberry
Nature, sharing	Spinach
Neediness	Grape	Peach
Negative emotions	Grape
Negativity	Banana	Blackberry	Cherry	Orange
Nervousness	Almond	Banana	Lettuce	Pear
Nightmares	Tomato
Non-acceptance	Date
Non-commitment	Avocado	Coconut	Grape
Non-possessiveness	Grape
Non-reactiveness	Banana
Nurturance	Grape	Peach
Obedience, expecting	Grape
Objectivity	Banana
Obnoxiousness	Pineapple
Observance, quality of	Banana
Obsessiveness	Fig
Obstinacy	Banana
Open-mindedness	Date	Fig
Openness	Avocado	Tomato
Opinionated	Banana
Optimism	Blackberry	Cherry
Organization	Avocado
Orneriness	Cherry
"Out of sorts"	Pear
Outrageousness	Blackberry	Pineapple
Outspokenness	Pineapple
Overbearing	Grape	Pineapple
Overburden	Spinach
Over-concern	Apple
Over-conscientiousness	Strawberry
Over-extending	Fig
Overindulgence	Almond
Overly-serious	Fig	Spinach
Over-reactiveness	Raspberry
Oversensitivity	Strawberry
Overwhelm	Avocado	Spinach
Nature, attunement with	Spinach
Pain	Orange
Paranoia	Spinach
Past issues	Avocado
Patience	Coconut	Grape	Lettuce
Peace	Banana	Grape	Pear
Peacemaker	Pear
Peace of mind	Pear
Perfectionism	Fig
Perseverance	Coconut	Orange
Perspective, loss of	Banana
Pessimism	Blackberry	Cherry
Pioneering spirit	Corn
Playfulness	Spinach
Pliancy	Fig
Playfulness	Spinach
Poise	Strawberry
Positivity	Cherry
Possessiveness	Grape
Potential	Coconut
Poverty consciousness	Pineapple
Power	Pineapple
Practicality	Strawberry
Prejudice	Date	Fig
Present, living fully in	Avocado	Corn	Pear
Pride	Banana	Pineapple	Strawberry
Problem-oriented	Coconut
Procrastination	Coconut	Corn
Projects	Avocado
Proportion, sense of	Pear
Psychic oversensitivity	Strawberry
Psychic protection	Tomato
"Psychicsponge"	Strawberry
Psychosomatic illness	Apple
Public, dealing with	Date
Purification	Blackberry
Purity	Blackberry	Grape	Peach	Spinach
Purpose	Avocado
Purposelessness	Avocado
Pushiness	Grape	Pineapple
Quarrelsomeness	Banana	Pear
Quiet	Almond	Banana	Lettuce	Strawberry
Quitter’s attitude	Tomato
Rationalization	Corn
Reactiveness	Banana
Readiness	Avocado	Coconut	Tomato
Realism	Coconut
Rebelliousness	Almond
Recognition, need for	Banana
Receptivity	Date
Reconciliation	Pear
Regality	Strawberry
Regretfulness	Avocado
Relationships	Almond	Grape	Lettuce
	Pear	Strawberry
Relaxation	Fig
Release	Raspberry
Reliability	Strawberry
Remembrance	Avocado
Repetitiveness	Lettuce
Repression	Lettuce
Resentment	Raspberry
Resignation	Orange
Resilience	Orange
Respect	Grape	Spinach	Strawberry
Responsibility	Date	Raspberry	Strawberry
Responsiveness	Corn
Restlessness	Almond	Lettuce
Reverence	Orange
Rhythm, sense of	Pear
Rigidity	Fig
Rudeness	Peach
Sadness	Cherry
Sarcasm	Blackberry
Satisfaction	Spinach
Scatteredness	Lettuce
Security	Peach
Self-acceptance	Fig
Self-assuredness	Pineapple
Self-blame	Blackberry	Strawberry
Self-care	Apple
Self-control	Almond
Self-critical	Fig
Self-denial	Fig
Self-dominating	Fig
Self-honesty	Blackberry	Tomato
Self-involvement	Peach
Selfishness	Peach
Selflessness	Peach
Self-liberation	Fig
Self-limitation	Fig
Self-nurturance	Date
Self-pity	Cherry	Orange
Self-respect	Strawberry
Self-seeking	Peach
Self, sense of	Strawberry
Self-study	Blackberry
Self-worth	Strawberry
Sensitivity	Date	Peach
Separation	Grape
Serenity	Orange
Seriousness	Fig	Spinach
Sexuality	Almond	Grape
Shakiness	Coconut
Sharp thinking	Blackberry
Shock	Pear
Shrewdness	Spinach
Shyness	Banana	Pineapple	Strawberry	Tomato
Silence	Almond
Simplicity	Spinach
Sincerity	Blackberry	Spinach
Sloppiness	Avocado
Sluggishness	Corn
Smile	Orange
Smothering	Peach
Solidity	Date	Pear	Strawberry
Solution-oriented	Coconut
Sourness	Cherry	Date
Spaciness	Avocado	Strawberry
Spontaneity	Cherry
Stability	Cherry	Pear	Tomato
Stage fright	Lettuce
Stamina	Coconut
Steadfastness	Coconut	Grape	Tomato
Steadiness	Coconut	Pear
Straightforwardness	Blackberry
Strength	Apple	Banana	Coconut
	Date	Pear	Tomato
Stress	Almond	Spinach	Tomato
Strictness	Fig
Struggle	Orange
Substance abuse	Almond	Tomato
"Stuck/’ feeling	Corn
Success	Lettuce	Tomato
Suffering	Orange
Supportiveness	Peach
Suppression	Fig
Surrender	Banana
Sweetness	Date
Sweets, craving	Date
Sympathy	Raspberry
Synchronicity	Almond
Taciturn	Banana
Tactlessness	Blackberry	Pineapple
Tastes, refined	Strawberry
Teasing	Grape
Temperamental ism	Cherry
Temperance	Almond
Tenderness	Date
Tension	Fig	Pear	Spinach
Terror	Tomato
Thoughts, quality of	Apple
Thoughtlessness	Peach
Tolerance	Fig	Lettuce
Touchiness	Raspberry
Trauma	Pear
Transcendence	Grape	Orange
Travel	Tomato
Troubling experience	Pear
Trust	Lettuce	Spinach
Truthfulness	Blackberry
Unaffectedness	Cherry
Unambitiousness	Avocado
Unappreciativeness	Peach
Unassuming nature	Strawberry
Unbalance, state of	Fig	Pear
Uncenteredness	Pear	Strawberry
Uncleanliness	Apple	Blackberry
Unconditional love	Grape
Undemanding	Grape
Understanding	Peach	Raspberry
Undeservedness	Strawberry
Uneasiness	Almond
Unemployment	Pineapple
Ungroundedness	Strawberry
Unhappiness	Cherry	Pineapple	Spinach
Unkindness	Blackberry	Raspberry
Unpleasantness	Date
Unreality	Fig
Unresponsiveness	Corn
Unsure, of self	Strawberry
Unwillingness	Coconut	Corn
Unworthiness	Strawberry
Upliftment	Coconut
Uprootedness	Strawberry
Upset	Banana
Uptight	Banana
Vacant-minded	Avocado
Vacillation	Coconut	Lettuce
Vigor	Corn
Victory	Tomato
Vitality	Corn	Orange
Vulnerability	Apple	Grape	Pear
Weakness	Tomato
Weariness	Corn
Welcoming	Date
Well-being	Almond	Apple
Wholeness	Apple
Wholesomeness	Apple
Willingness	Avocado	Coconut	Corn	Pear
Will power	Corn	Tomato
Wisdom	Date	Fig	Pineapple	Raspberry
Withdrawal	Tomato
Withdrawn nature	Lettuce
Wonderment	Spinach
"Workaholic"	Almond
Worry	Apple	Spinach
Woundedness	Raspberry
Zeal	Corn